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Paula Byrne Memorial

bildeWe are saddened to say that Paula Byrne passed away Wednesday. We are all greatly diminished by the loss of this gentle and compassionate person. Paula lived a wonderful life, raising her two children, Shawn and Nicole, to be kind, honest adults with a positive outlook on life. She was loved by so many people, not only her family and friends but also by the Vail community and the many doctors and caregivers with whom she became acquainted over the years.

Paula's victories have been remarkable over the past 14 years. As many know, she received a full bone marrow transplant on Sept. 5, 13 years ago. Her gracious manner yet iron will to survive amazed all around her. Her struggle with cancer over the last few years has proven that she can beat the odds again and again. From the Fred Hutchison Hospital to Rocky Mountain Cancer Center to MD Anderson, Paula has astounded the medical community. Even through a critical diagnosis and multiple intensive care visits, Paula bounced back with a joyous smile and positive attitude each time. Cristina Byrne, who has been her long-term caregiver, dear friend and medical advocate for the past years, always remarked that she has never met a person who had as wonderful an attitude and could endure difficult situations without complaint.

In Vail, Paula is survived by Shawn Byrne, a college freshman this fall; Nicole Byrne, a rising tennis star and junior at Vail Mountain School; Lorina Dehelean Byrne, an eighth-grader at Vail Mountain School; and Cristina and Ron. Paula's life is to be greatly celebrated, as her resilience and determination to live allowed her to raise her children and give them the same wonderful disposition and strong character.

A recent birthday was so meaningful for Paula, as her close friends held a surprise catered luncheon and sisters Renae Bell and Wendy Wurmlinger flew in to help celebrate. Paula was also able to visit with her brothers, Gary, Brian and Neal Wurmlinger and their families early this summer as we all watched Vail begin to bloom again. She is survived by her mother, Marie Wurmlinger, and many friends in Michigan.

Vail is a very special place because of its community. Many locals remember when Paula was diagnosed with leukemia 14 years ago and the community held drives for bone marrow donors so that she could survive. Although no match was found from within the Vail community, over 900 possible donors were added to the bone marrow directory and many have provided the gift of life to others.

In lieu of flowers, the family would love to see this gift be given to others by donating to: My Friends Care Cancer Fund, 148 South Main Street, Suite 101, Mount Clemens, MI 48043; www.myfriendscare.org.

Paula Byrne passed to God's hands peacefully Wednesday evening at the Byrne home on Forest Road holding hands and in prayer with Shawn, Nicole, Lorina, Cristina and Ron. Friends and wonderful caregivers Nancy and Svetlana were also present in love. As is tradition in Romania, Cristina lit a special candle for Paula to see the light to ascend. With great love from all of those around, her spirit found peace. Through her memory we have been greatly enriched. She will be missed but not forgotten. The Byrne Family.

 

Donor Drives

My Friends Care Cancer Fund supports Marrow Donor Drives throughout the nation, offering critically needed services to marrow and umbilical cord blood transplant patients and their families. 

In 2009, My Friends Care contributed $6,550 to Be The Match Foundation and helped to add 262 potential donors to the national registry, helping to increase the likelihood that patients will find a match.  Since 1989, My Friends Care has supported the addition of over 50,000 people to the Be The Match Registry.

The following Marrow Donor Drives were supported by My Friends Care Cancer Fund in 2009:

  • St. Johns Villa High School, Staten Island, New York – April 26, 2009:

Held in memory of Matthew Scherer

  • Southern Crescent Baptist Church, McDonough, Georgia – May 30, 2009
  • Winder First United Methodist Church, Winder, Georgia – June 07, 2009:

Held on behalf of Jeff Duren 

  • The Refuge Church, Perry, Georgia – July 18, 2009:
  • Birthday celebration for Kody Lucas, age 17, battling a brain tumor, wishing to add more potential bone marrow donors on Be The Match Registry. 
  • Leash Up For Life Pet Parade, Stony Creek, Shelby Twp., Michigan – October 11, 2009:

Held on behalf of Arianna Travis

  • Colleges Against Cancer @ Emory University, Atlanta, Georgia – December 1 – 4, 2009. 

Every day, thousands of patients with leukemia, lymphoma and other life threatening diseases depend on contributions to make marrow and umbilical cord blood transplants possible, bringing hope to patients and their loved ones.

You can help us continue to give hope to patients in need of life saving marrow and umbilical cord blood transplants by making a donation to My Friends Care Cancer Fund via Pay Pal  on our web site or by mailing your check to My Friends Care Cancer Fund, 148 S. Main Street, Suite 101, Mount Clemens, MI 48043.  Your contribution to My Friends Care Cancer Fund is tax deductible to the full extent of the law.

Thank you for your support.

Leash Up For Life

On Sunday, October 12th, 99.5 WYCD's Jyl Forsyth and her furry friends participated in the "Leash Up for Life Pet Parade" at Stony Creek Metro Park - Baypoint Beach! Proceeds from this fun outing went to benefit My Friends Care Cancer Fund.  

To find out how you can help this great cause visit www.myfriendscare.org or call 586.783.7390.